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Six months to find a husband

LA woman moves to Manchester to find love

Published on January 12th 2011.


Six months to find a husband

‘I am on a quest to find love in Manchester’ says former LA screenwriter Jennifer Grace Cook in an online open letter to her future soul mate. A soul mate she believes is right here, under our noses.

She cites Manchester – ‘the birthplace of the Industrial Revolution, the Smiths, Oasis, home to Manchester United and backdrop of this romantic satire memoir’ - as the perfect location to find the type of ‘noble man’ she longs for.

‘I gave up my home of 18 years in Los Angeles, sold most of my things, put those things I value into storage said farewell to my family and friends and have come to a city in a foreign country where I have no friends and no history. All I have is what I’d like to think is the most noble of intentions. I have come to Manchester to find my future.’

Los Angeles may be a sprawling city full of beautiful people but for 44-year-old Cook, something is missing.

Instead, she cites Manchester – ‘the birthplace of the Industrial Revolution, the Smiths, Oasis, home to Manchester United and backdrop of this romantic satire memoir’ - as the perfect location to find the type of ‘noble man’ she longs for. She can’t explain why she’s chosen Manchester, but is adamant true love is in this city.

Her blog, anoblemanchester.com, will chronicle her six-month quest, but admits her capricious approach to finding love is a bold if not barmy move.

‘I’ll have to admit, I am a little scared. Who does something like this? Seriously what am I thinking? And my God, poor you because if you do fall in love with me this is just the beginning.

‘Please know I will make mistakes. I will feel lost, lonely and uncertain. And you will remain steadfast, that I can see in advance, the strength of your will.’

It’s scary for her and perhaps a little scary for the male population of Manchester. Suffice to say, a woman who writes a letter to a man she is yet to meet highlighting her flaws and expectations, is very brave.

No doubt, Jennifer will meet plenty of men – she’s been in Manchester only a few days and has already met four men. She also met up for Guinness and chips with our very own Simon Binns, who reported back that she was ‘charming, good fun and very sharp.’Whether the true recipient of her letter will be found, time will tell. Maybe it could be you, or someone you know.

As she concludes: “I have no idea where or how we will meet. I have no idea how this journey will end but it will end with a beginning and I think it’s going to be kind of fun.’

If you think Jennifer’s letter should be addressed to you or you simply want to follow Jennifer’s quest for love in Manchester, you can visit her blog here and follow her on twitter @jenngracecook.

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19 comments so far, continue the conversation, write a comment.

Anon TooJanuary 12th 2011.

Surely a date with gordo is on the cards?

AnonymousJanuary 12th 2011.

Home to Manchester United? That'd be Stretford luv, not Manchester.

AnonymousJanuary 12th 2011.

...though Oasis are from Manchester. The two city fans not from Stockport or Tameside.

Brian CJanuary 12th 2011.

If a man values his sanity he will avoid this woman at all costs.

NortherngeezerJanuary 12th 2011.

Wonder if theres any chance Mrs Geezer will let me out on Friday by meself ;-)

John HarrisJanuary 12th 2011.

I think the word for this kind of thing is narcissism

Andrea WJanuary 12th 2011.

Good luck girl! I'm in your age bracket and been single for five years.Its so disheartening that i've ggiven up looking!

KatrinaJanuary 13th 2011.

Manchester United is in Manchester - the big concept of Manchester that includes everything from Whitefield to Cheadle Hulme, from Davyhulme to Denton, from Hale to Failsworth, not merely the reduced admin boundaries. Good luck to this very pretty woman.

AnonymousJanuary 13th 2011.

Agree with Katrina - Manchester spreads out in spirit beyond the city, Stockport etc all benefit from being included within the Manchester family.

It's the capital of the North West - The LA woman should be given a break, at least she's not assumed we are part of London and has picked the right city.

Hope she finds a nice guy

Jennifer, not, GraceJanuary 13th 2011.

It's hard enough for a woman born and bred in Manchester to find a decent single bloke in this, my own, City let alone women flocking from the US to snap them up!!

NortherngeezerJanuary 13th 2011.

U wanna be thankfull u wernt born scouse Jenn, dem der wimin 'ave reelee got probs!!!!

DibigoJanuary 13th 2011.

"Who does something like this?". Attention seeking social oddballs, that's who. No wonder she has had to take such drastic steps to find a bloke. 6 months, back on the plane, on her own.

culture vultureJanuary 13th 2011.

Fascinating. Sometimes you have to do this to find the right person, I only wish I could do the same to find the right woman! I'm sure she exists but where?

Hero
GordoJanuary 13th 2011.

Get yer coat, you've pulled...

John HarrisJanuary 13th 2011.

I'm available

But I am no longer in Manchester

Ah well

If any undiscriminating desperate nymphomaniacs fancy a bit of Caribbean living apply here

another former angelena in mancJanuary 13th 2011.

women like this make me embarrassed to be american.

Brian CJanuary 13th 2011.

@another former angelena etc. As if you didnt have enough problems with that already - boom boom! (dont mean it at all but couldnt waste the line, sorry) X

another former angelena in mancJanuary 14th 2011.

@brian c yes....it was coming from a mile away! :)

just wait until miss jenn comes out with her 3rd-rate "eat pray love" memoir, chock full of indierific manchester music references, quirky cultural misunderstandings, and descriptions of wild nights in the nq. "a noble man", starring fillintheblankgenericamericanactress, coming to theatres near you...

nobbly mancJanuary 17th 2011.

My girlfriend has met her and says she's lovely, which is good enough for me. Good luck to her.

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